Saturday, January 03, 2009

Pissed

I don't get staying in abusive relationships. If somebody hurts you and you're afraid of the person, why stay and be punished? Somebody close to me is in one and she continues to stay and that pisses me off. Their would be no telling what I'd do if I catch him laying a hand on her. I'm so close to leaving right now.

9 comments:

Diane said...

nothing you can do is going to change anything, just so you know.
i am totally NOT dissing your friend when i say this but, she is obviously insecure. when she decides to work on that, things will change for her.
you should encourage that, rather than try to go over there and kick ass.

Unknown said...

Kick that dudes ass!

kimmyk said...

diane has a point. she needs to wake up-you can't make her do anything or leave til she gets it in her head she deserves different.

or throw all that logical thinking out the window and go kick the dude's ass like ace said.

Kate Michele said...

she has to make the decision for herself to help herself first.

but that doesn't mean of course you cant kick his ass, THAT'S your decision. :D

xoxox

Bettina said...

I'm absolutely with you on that one. I really don't get it either. But the thing is, you can't help people who don't want to be helped. They have to make the decision to want to get out first.

Euromark said...

Perhaps we get what we give in any of our relationships. Sometimes people just need our help for a while, and then they see that we are not what they are looking for.

Leni Qinan said...

Right, it's her decision, but she might need some help to get out of there.

The reason why women in these circumstances stay is they're either too scared or they have been abused to the point that their will has been shattered. So they need help.

ysfb said...

This makes this one personal since this person is extreamly close to me since we dated awhile back. She was one of the better ones that got away.

Ladyred said...

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